Thursday, January 5, 2023

Thank God!!

Time for something lighter...

I emailed my attorney earlier this week asking to receive a phone call for verification...

This weekend S tried to bully me into believing that I had no right to talk to M on his parenting time unless he decided it was acceptable.  So basically, my ability to be there or check on my children was in his control on his days...was this true?

NOOOOOOO!!  My attorney called me today and it took her a minute to review our parenting plan and then she said...'would you like to let S know that this behavior is not ok, or should I reach out to his attorney?' 

I replied 'Go through the court please, I don't feel he respects my voice.'  She confirmed that she would follow up and she needed any documentation I had to show he was withholding my right to talk to my child.  

The second the phone call ended, I was flooded with this intense and overwhelming surprise, praise, relief, gratitude, awe, take that sucka, and joyous sensation.  My whole body was smiling...

I called my sis first thing, and shared the news with her.  Then I started almost uncontrollably crying as I shared the relief I felt.  She expressed she would drive whatever distance she needs to, and enforce violence, if needed, if he ever tries to keep me from being a mom again....lol.  I laughed, I cried, and I thanked her for being there.  What a beautiful moment we got to share together.  

Being a mom is my most cherished and valued job.  I am beyond blessed by my kids over and over.  

Thanks God...I am grateful for this little win today. 


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